Situation 1...
Recently, my friend is really troubled... she is very sad...even the simplest thing can make her cry... why? becoz of her bf... it is all coz of that guy... he is so stupid...never to understand my friend's heart... always break her heart...
recently...
my friend & her bf have a club gathering...
& she cant attend...
so her bf went...
well, during the club gathering...
they play a game...
truth or dare...
well...since she didnt go...
so her bf told her everything...
one thing which make her so speechless is...
he said he had to change clothes with a girl...well it is a dare...
then he can ask my friend...are u ok?
Of course she was NOT ok...she was so disappointed in him...
but she juz kept quiet...
then her bf kept on going...telling her about the whole gathering...
finally, her bf asked her y? y she is so quiet?
He keep on asking her to tell him y is she so quiet...
but she juz said nothing...
You idiot... Don't u ever think of ur gf? Do u know that her tears is flowing like a river? when u telling her all this? Dont u ever think of her feelings?
Well, my friend did say open her mouth after awhile...
she was crying...but she didnt tell him...
She asked him, "What would u think or do if I said I change clothes with another guy?"
Do u know what is his answer?
He said he didnt mind...if it is a game...
my friend was like WHAT!!!
she wouldn't even dare to do it at all...if it was a game she will asked for something else...for she knows her position as she has a bf d...
she would do whatever it takes so that she will not disappoint her bf...
However, her bf never know about this...as she did not want to tell him...
she want him to figure out on his own...
But for me...my friend's bf is such an idiot...he doesnt realise how much she loves him... he only always say he loves her...but does his action shows...NO However, my friend is the opposite... she seldom say that she loves him...but i hate u...becoz of wat his bf did & also becoz of he doesnt understand her... y she do this? it is becoz for she love her bf so much... for her, love can nvr be shown through words but actions...
Her bf is so slow to figure it out...
yes, she is JEALOUS...
how could u juz simple change clothes with the opposite gender?
what would people say?
well, if u r single...it is ok...
but, u r in a relationship...
dun u ever think of ur partner feelings?
My friend here is so so sad & depress...
whenever she thinks of what had happen...tears began to form...
she wished that she can erase what she had heard...
I know that she loves her bf so much & nvr show...
but yet...her bf is so slow in figuring out her feelings...
situation 2...
In a another situation her bf brought up a thing that he is so jealous of...
well, in their group of friends...there is this guy who my friend call as big brother..
then during one lunch, they talk about transfering to another campus in Cyber...
so her big bro wanted to rent a house...
so my friend joked around saying he should find a place...for girls & guys can rent together...
so that she can rent together with him when she go cyber as she was 1 semester late...but she is not going to cyber anyway...
everyone was laughing...
but her bf sat there quietly...
he didnt even join in...
Then they went for class...she as asked her bf y?
and her bf say...u know the reason...
lol
she was so speechless...it was only some joke...
they were talking on the table with few others friends...
lol...her bf was jealous...
I dunno wat to say...
ur bf gets jealous coz of some joke...
he should juz join in with the join...
lol...
did u know that my friend was so worry about u?
dun know that she care for u?
She always remind herself that she has a bf...
she nvr even follow us to clubbing anymore...
she seldom hv fun with us anymore...
when we go out, she seldom speak with the guys alone anymore...she only speaks when the orthers join in...
Y all these happen?
all becoz she have a bf...
& her bf still nvr understands her...
how disappointed she is...when he do the things that hurt her...
however she nvr show it...
i pity my friend...We miss u a lot...the old u...
anyway, gambateh...
remember my dear friend...we r always there for u...
well, in their group of friends...there is this guy who my friend call as big brother..
then during one lunch, they talk about transfering to another campus in Cyber...
so her big bro wanted to rent a house...
so my friend joked around saying he should find a place...for girls & guys can rent together...
so that she can rent together with him when she go cyber as she was 1 semester late...but she is not going to cyber anyway...
everyone was laughing...
but her bf sat there quietly...
he didnt even join in...
Then they went for class...she as asked her bf y?
and her bf say...u know the reason...
lol
she was so speechless...it was only some joke...
they were talking on the table with few others friends...
lol...her bf was jealous...
I dunno wat to say...
ur bf gets jealous coz of some joke...
he should juz join in with the join...
lol...
did u know that my friend was so worry about u?
dun know that she care for u?
She always remind herself that she has a bf...
she nvr even follow us to clubbing anymore...
she seldom hv fun with us anymore...
when we go out, she seldom speak with the guys alone anymore...she only speaks when the orthers join in...
Y all these happen?
all becoz she have a bf...
& her bf still nvr understands her...
how disappointed she is...when he do the things that hurt her...
however she nvr show it...
i pity my friend...We miss u a lot...the old u...
anyway, gambateh...
remember my dear friend...we r always there for u...
I am here being the stupid bf reading through this thing... And finds out about everything...
ReplyDeleteFirst of all... I can't say that i did not do anything wrong... I know I am at fault, and i humbly apologize...
And, recently, there are things between us which has soured badly... Maybe it's becoz we don't spend some time to get to know each other and we're starting to feel jealous of each other when we come to the opposite gender...
So, again, my fault...
I am the one who is stupid... Btw, I don't restrict her to do what she wanted to do...
My biggest mistake was the truth or dare thing and the getting jealous of a joke...
and btw, about clubbing... I am jz worried abuot her safety...
Even with you all, does it prove that she'll be safe? Is fun more important than being safe?
I stopped her from going clubbing is becoz i don't want strangers to take advantage of her... Even If you all are there, still, there are a lot of people who will try and take advantage of her...
So, i'm doing what i can to protect her...
About jealousy...
I know...
I have a big problem trying to control it...
I've been struggling not to get jealous and give her as much freedom as she wants to...
and i'm still trying...
so, please forgive me for what i've done...
and i am very very embarrassed that it became such a problem for her...
dear けに一 ,
ReplyDeletei am sorry if i made u feel uneasy or wat...
but, r u sure i am talking about u?
maybe u r mistaken...
Anyway, i am here to write what i think is right..
I know my friend...she is the type that keeps everything to herself...
she will never speak her heart out & u must try to understand her feeling... i know it is hard but try to think... what if she did the same things u did? how would u feel?
think before doing...coz it will really affect a relationship...
i know she is happy being with her bf...& also how sad she is...
she change a lot...& she is trying her best...
girls are very delicate things
they r like a glass...take care of it carefully...
or it will break to pieces...
& once broke it will never be the same again..
so take good care of her...
^_^ hope u guys have a great time together...
& my friend,けに一 ...i hope ur relationship with ur gf goes well...
wish u all the best...
i am here trying my best to help anyone this problem or need a shoulder, an ear to listen or just someone to talk to...
i will try my best to give advice but it wont be accurate 100%...
it is up to u to determine ur life...
need my help...do email me...& i will try my best to help...snowniko@gmail.com